You’re the other woman? Get acceptance from your friends

Dating a Married Man?  Friends don’t accept that you’re the other woman?  Help them accept the situation.

You’re the other woman. You know that dating a married man isn’t the best choice.  However, sometimes your heart has a mind of its own.  If you’ve fallen for a man who just happens to be married, the relationship can be complicated.  One of the hardest parts about being the other woman is getting acceptance from your close friends.  They may never fully accept the idea.  When you do tell your friends, follow this advice to make it go as smoothly as possible.

  1. Accept Their Judgement

Sometimes it’s the people who are closest to you that can really hurt you.  These are your closest friends, and they will probably tell you exactly what they are thinking – and it may not be something you particularly want to hear.  They most likely won’t agree with your actions.  Heck – You probably didn’t agree with your actions either, until you met this guy.  When you tell them what’s going on, expect them to judge you.  They may say it’s immoral or greedy, or tell you you’re making a bad move.  Allow them to say what they want, and try not to take it personally.  Dating a married man is a controversial subject.

 

  1. Tell Them Your Side

Once your friends have said their bit – tell them your side of the story.  Let them know that you understand dating a married man isn’t exactly perfect, but you can’t argue with your heart right now.  Show them you have perspective on the situation. Give them all the details of how and why you have fallen for this guy.  Don’t leave anything out.  The more they know about how great this guy makes you feel, the more likely they are to accept it.

 

  1. They Don’t Have to Accept It

These are your closest friends we are talking about.  If they are upset about what you’re doing, it’s most likely because they are concerned for you.  Dating a married man usually ends in a lot of heart ache.  Understand that they have your best interests at heart.  They may never actually agree with the situation.  They may never accept it – But that’s okay.  They don’t need to accept the situation they just need to accept you.  Good friends will be able to see that you are happy – at least for the moment – and that’s what should be important to them.

Have Something to Say to Your Man? Say it!

Don’t keep it bottled up.  Talk to your man about what you’re feeling.

One of the biggest problems with relationships is lack of communication.  When something is on your mind, it needs to be voiced to the man you are involved with.  No good comes from keeping your feelings bottled up.  However, many people do keep their feelings bottled up because they are too nervous about bringing it up with their man.

Here are some tips to help you build up the courage to talk to your man.

  1. Why Are You Nervous?

What is making you so nervous about approaching him with this subject?  Are you scared he is going to get upset?  That you won’t like his answer?  Try to imagine the worst possible result and then prepare yourself for that.  Chances are the result won’t get anywhere close to that, and you will feel relieved when it’s over.

 

  1. Write it Down

If you’re unsure of how to begin, try writing down exactly how you’re feeling on a piece of paper.  Write for as long as you need to make the idea clear in your head.  Having a clear idea of exactly how you’re feeling will help you put these feelings into words.

 

  1. Practice

Before you talk with him, go somewhere private and say it out loud a few times.  The more times you say it out loud, the easier it will be to say again – only next time he will be in the room to listen!

 

  1. Tell Him You’re Nervous

If it helps you, start by telling him that you need to talk to him about something, and that you are a bit nervous to bring it up.  He will want to hear what you have to say and will do whatever you need to feel comfortable.  Sometimes sitting beside him instead of across from him will help ease your nerves because you don’t have to look directly at him if you don’t want to.

 

  1. Just Do It!

Yup, it’s time to jump right out there and just say what’s on your mind!  Trust me – it’s not going to be as horrible as you think, and it will feel as though a huge weight has been lifted off your shoulders when you are finished.

The more you talk to your man, the easier it will be and eventually no prep work will be needed.  Good communication is the key to any good relationship.  Practice! Practice! Practice!

Is Lindsay Lohan Going To Be The Next Flesh Light Girl?

Flesh light| Will Lindsay Lohan Accept The Million Dollar Offer For A Mold of Her Private Parts?

 

Will There Be A Lindsay Lohan Flesh Light?

 

Will Lindsay Lohan take the plunge and become the newest addition to the Flesh light family? The male sex toy industry has been buzzing with news that they may be coming out with a Lindsay Lohan Flesh light if she accepts the invitation to have molds made of her mouth, anus, and pussy.

 

Lindsay Lohan has been offered one million dollars for the molds of these areas of her body. There has been no word back as of yet, if Lohan is willing to walk the same line as other famous Flesh light girls before her already have. If Lohan takes the offer that was given to her by the marketing buffs behind the Flesh light toys, she will join the likes of Jenna Haze, Tera Patrick, and Stoya.

 

Lindsay Lohan has already made a deal with Playboy that she is going to pose nude in their magazine. However, is having a mold made of her private parts going a little bit too far? The Flesh light male masturbators are presently the number one selling male sex toy on the market. Can you imagine how honored Lohan must feel to be asked for these various molds of her body?

 

We all know that Lindsay has the looks, she has the appeal, and she definitely has the attitude. She has the guts to pose in Playboy nude, but does she have the guts to have her body parts molded, so other men can live out their fantasies?

 

Who Is Lindsay Lohan?

 

Unless you have been living under a rock for the past ten years, I shouldn’t have to tell you who Lindsay Lohan is. Once the star of the quirky comedy the Parent Trap, the once little girl featured in that adorable movie has grown up to be one sexy woman. Lindsay has been in the tabloids a lot for her problems with drinking, but the funny thing is even though Ms. Lohan may appear trashy in some people’s eyes, there is no denying that this hot little star is anything less of gorgeous.

 

What man wouldn’t want to stick his hard cock into a special Flesh light that was made from special molds taken from this woman’s body? Steve Shubin, CEO of the Flesh light corporation is hoping that Lohan accepts his one million dollar offer. At the present time, Lindsay has not left any word if she is going to take Shubin up on his offer or not.

 

I guess we are all just going to have to wait and see if this bad ass girl has the guts to take the next step. We already know that she has the guts to get nude and show her goods to the world, but does she have the guts to let the Flesh light family welcome her into their top selling industry? Personally speaking, I think that Lohan would be crazy to not accept the offer given by the Flesh light CEO. However, time will tell if she’s willing to make every guys fantasy a reality or not.

My New Man has a History of Cheating!

I like this new guy, but he has a history of cheating.  Am I setting myself up for disaster?

If you’re in a new relationship with a man who has a history of being unfaithful, you may be wondering if he’s actually a good choice to pursue.  Knowing his history of cheating will likely make you suspicious of his behavior right from the beginning.  However, people can change in the right circumstances, and if you think this might be the man for you, proceed slowly and talk to him about the following things:

  1. Understand His Previous Relationships

You know he has a history of cheating.  You need to understand why he cheated.  Ask him about what was going on in his past relationships when he opted to cheat.  Usually there is a reason for such behavior.  Maybe he wasn’t in love anymore, or he wasn’t satisfied in bed.  The more you understand what caused it in the past, the better you can understand how to keep it from happening in the future.

 

  1. Ask Him To Be Transparent

Let him know that you have concerns about his past of cheating and that it makes you nervous to begin dating him. He needs to be transparent with you.  Let him know you need to build up the trust with him, and you need him to be as open and honest as he can possibly be to show you that you can trust him.  No little white lies – as harmless as they seem when he tells them – it will make you suspicious of anything he says.

 

  1. Open Up

Make sure you keep the communication lines open throughout your relationship.  If one of the reasons he cheated in the past was bedroom boredom, ask him what sort of things he’d like to try out with you.  Keep it exciting.  The most important thing is good communication.  Don’t keep things bottled up.  If there is tension in the air – clear it.  Being in a relationship where he feels free to say what he wants, and knows it will be respected – will keep him happy and less likely to stray.

 

  1. He Can Change

There are many people out there who had a history of cheating and are now in faithful relationships or marriages.  When men cheat it is often because of something wrong in the relationship.  All it usually takes is a truly great relationship to make your man settle down.  If you are the right one for him – he won’t want to stray.

Define… “Cheating”

Define cheating as a couple to make sure neither one of you make a mistake.

It seems that there used to be a definition of dating many years ago.  The lines were clear and it was easy to judge what was and was not allowed.  Over the years, people have become a lot more open about their sexual relationships and desires, and relationship boundaries are often ‘smudged’.  When you get into a relationship with someone, you need to clearly define cheating and what you both believe it is.

Some questions to start with may be:

Is it cheating if either one of you….

  • go to the strip club?
  • get a lap dance?
  • have coffee with someone you find attractive?
  • go to dinner and a show with someone you find attractive?
  • cuddle with someone?
  • kiss someone while playing a game of truth or dare when you are both present?
  • kiss someone while playing a game of truth or dare when the other person is not present?
  • dance sexually with another person at a night club?
  • lightly kiss another person?
  • passionately kiss another person?
  • have phone sex or cyber-sex with another person?
  • kiss a celebrity?
  • kiss or make out with someone of the same sex?
  • give oral sex?
  • receive oral sex?
  • you have sex with someone vacation?
  • watch porn?
  • masturbate while watching porn?
  • get a ‘happy ending’ massage

The list can go on forever, which is why it’s important that you sit down together and make a clear outline of what is cheating and what is not.  Some women don’t mind their man going out with the boys to a strip club, but may draw the line at getting a lap dance.  Some couples have a list of celebrities that if they ever had the chance (highly unlikely in most cases)they would be allowed to have sex with.  Many couples take it further – and allow their significant other to have sex with other people as long as they know about it.

You don’t know what type of relationship your man is used to being in, and vice versa – so you must define cheating in your relationship at the beginning so nobody gets hurt.  You may not agree on everything, but that’s okay – you can always compromise – just make sure that if you say it’s okay, you mean it.  And don’t stray from the rules you have set up.